Listening for a Change!

Like many other Americans (those both jubilant and disappointed), I am still digesting the fact that Barack Hussein Obama II is the 44th President-Elect of the United States of America.

There are lots of implications to be explored in this historical event, but the one that is most exciting from the perspective of this blog and this blogger is this short excerpt from his election-eve speech: "and I will listen to you, especially when we disagree." Hallelujah! Listening has been officially endorsed by the white house. What a concept!

What would the political process look like if we actually listened for a change--especially when we disagree. What would our foreign policy and relationships with the nations of the world be if we actually made it a priority to hear and understand their points of view. Not that we haven't done this to some extent with diplomatic efforts. But it's never been the centerpoint, only the stepchild of the strategy of force. Bullies don't listen, they push you down or twist your arm.

What would it be like if our elected officials, business leaders and diplomats learned how to use Nonviolent Communication in decision making to hear the feelings and needs of other human beings http://www.cnvc.org/.

What if we did it differently--and directed the energy of fighting across the aisle and across the border, into understanding and constructive action. Imagine what could be accomplished.

My vote on Tuesday was not only for this man but for the ideals that he is bringing to the table. The origin of the word "vote" is from the Latin votum "a vow, wish, promise, dedication". In this light, voting becomes a pledge of action that continues on after the election results are finalized and the winner is announced. My vow, my wish, my promise and my dedication is to support President Obama's efforts to listen, to build community, and to restore the trust, respect and vibrancy of our great country. And that is something I really want to hear about.